Can you imagine what it would be like to not know what you
looked like? I imagine this was the case back when we humans lived in
caves. Aside from seeing one’s reflection at a watering hole or in a bowl of
heated animal fat, I’m not sure our Paleolithic ancestors ever had an
opportunity to examine their own faces. What would that have been like? Not
being aware if you had wrinkles, acne or mono-brow…and not caring even if you did?
It seems that would have been pretty liberating. In fact, one of the only yard-sticks
cave-dwellers could have used to physically critique each other was by how
healthy another dweller looked. But considering the living conditions, everyone
probably had missing teeth, scars on their face and bodies, and terrible
breath. My theory is that in addition to having all your working body parts,
confidence was the thing that originally made people sexy. And additionally,
that confidence would have been much easier to spot way back when. Once again,
I will use the story of “Cavegirl Claire” to further explain what I mean.
After some deliberating, Claire had decided she wanted to partner
with a certain boy in her tribe called Amir. This boy had an air about him. He
strode when he walked – shoulders back and chin thrust out. He looked at others
directly in the eyes when he passed them. When there were misunderstandings or
altercations between himself and others, he stood his ground. And if he
witnessed things that did not seem fair to him, he made his opinions known.
Amir was dripping with confidence – and that made Claire’s toes curl. When Amir
was younger, he had been the tribe member who was usually sent to collect the fire.
Before an especially resourceful forager called Greta had figured out how to
make fire from tools and rocks at their campsites, Claire’s tribe would need to
keep an eye out for lightening strikes and wild fires. When a fire was spotted,
Amir would leave camp and collect a starter fire or two. It was risky, but he
did it for the good of the group. Since he was a fast runner, he was certainly
fit, but he also knew more of the terrain than other foragers since he had
traveled in so many different directions. As a result, Amir had become an
especially valuable hunter and confidant to Jerome, the leader of Claire’s
tribe. Jerome had come to depend on Amir’s expertise while they were on hunts. A
confident cave-dweller was also more dependable in a pinch; more likely to help
out a fellow hunter/forager when help was needed because that cave-dweller knew
exactly what they were doing and was not afraid to do it. Amir had proven he
was not only useful, but reliable. He had won the respect of Jerome, so he had every
right to feel confidant.
Now even
though Amir was no longer needed to collect the fire, his relationship with
Jerome had allowed him to do something else that was good for Claire’s tribe:
Amir had become their storyteller. I picture her, sitting in one of the larger
caves near a small fire on an especially eventful evening. The hunters had just
returned with a kill and much of the tribe is gathered to hear how it happened.
Amir is painting more bison onto the wall of the cave – it must have been an
especially large herd they had been tracking. Claire appreciates Amir’s
attention to detail and effort to include others as he begins his story. He is
expressive and dynamic. He uses his body and his voice to share all he can
about what happened during the hunt. Where they were. How each hunter
contributed. What sounds he heard. What sacrifices were made. How much blood
was spilled. He is not afraid to distort his face…share how he felt…totally…completely.
The entire group is riveted, and Claire can barely contain herself. Amir’s
stories inject life into the tribe and bring them all closer together. And Claire
wants to get closer to Amir. She sees him as dependable and powerful. She
believes Amir could make her feel safe. Possibly even happy.
Fast forward 40,000 years and imagine Claire as a modern-day fan
of an actor, watching a movie in a theater. There is very little light and
there are people all around her. She may be sitting with friends or by herself.
She might have the same feelings toward a character or specific performance as
a cave-dweller in Claire's situation. A movie-goer could be carried to another
place and time. Included in a story. Feel safe yet exhilarated. Not only that,
the structure of the movie itself might mirror the happenings of a hunt with
its setting, characters, conflict, climax and resolution. She is focused on the
main character and watches him interact with others. She feels like she knows
something about him. And he is probably healthy-looking and strong. It could be
that the stories we humans tell each other have actually not evolved very much. But the stakes for a cavegirl
were a lot higher than those of a fangirl; if a fan chooses an inauthentic
performer or story to fander, they can just change allegiances and fander
someone or something else. But if Claire chooses wrong, she could die. Thankfully
for Claire, living face-to-face in a small band of people made detecting confidence
pretty easy for a cave-dweller. The information Claire had about her potential
mate/storyteller was much more accurate than the information a typical fan has
about a modern performer today.
Up Next: Modern messages about success get out of hand in "Claire Goes to Hollywood."
References
Nicholson, W. (1998). Fire and Cooking in Human Evolution. Beyond Vegetarianism, Online. http://www.beyondveg.com/nicholson-w/hb/hb-interview2c.shtml
Schank, R.C. & Abelson, R.P. (1995). Knowledge and Memory: The Real Story (pp 1-85). Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, New Jersey.
Taylor, B. (2017). Before Orion: Finding the Face of the Hero. Aquila Media Group.
Zimmer, C (2017). Oldest fossils of Homo Sapiens found in Morocco, altering history of our species. The New York Times, Online. https://www.nytimes.com/2017/06/07/science/human-fossils-morocco.html
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Schank, R.C. & Abelson, R.P. (1995). Knowledge and Memory: The Real Story (pp 1-85). Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, New Jersey.
Taylor, B. (2017). Before Orion: Finding the Face of the Hero. Aquila Media Group.
Zimmer, C (2017). Oldest fossils of Homo Sapiens found in Morocco, altering history of our species. The New York Times, Online. https://www.nytimes.com/2017/06/07/science/human-fossils-morocco.html
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Loved how you pulled the storyteller into the movie star. They are the same. I appreciate the fact that cave dwellers had so much face time which is something we are loosing I feel... Good to think about and reflect on with a fun, interesting story.
ReplyDeleteSince I look at myself in the mirror all the time, I love that you started the story by taking that away. I think I'm in love with Amir, too!
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